I don’t like asking questions and I don’t like answering them. I have plenty of them running through my mind though, more than I want. It’s one of my challenges of living on the Autism Spectrum. When asked a question, even one that I should know the answer, my brain doesn’t pop up the answer in lightning speed. My anxiety can get the best of me and give a dumb answer that I will kick myself later for. As far as asking questions, I really have to work up my nerve to ask because of my fear of a negative or puzzled response. Those times when I have gotten up the nerve to ask, then it was a question I probably asked out of sheer desperation.
When Jesus walked upon this Earth, He sometimes asked questions such as asking His disciples who people say He was and then who did they think He was. He was asked questions, too, from His disciples and followers. He also got questions from His enemies but they were seeking to discredit Him in front of the crowds. On one occasion, he was grilled into the night by a Pharisee named Nicodemus. An unlikely person to interview Jesus because he was a member of a group of Jews, the Pharisees, who did not care for Jesus’s teaching. He was also a high-level official being a member of the ruling body of the Jews known as the Sanhedrin.
Nicodemus’s grilling of Jesus is told in the third chapter of John. John reports that Nicodemus came to speak with Jesus at night. Many speculate Nicodemus chose to meet Jesus at night because he didn’t want to be seen with Jesus in the light of day. Perhaps he didn’t want his peers on the Sanhedrin to know he was conversing with their perceived enemy. This may indeed be true but the Scripture only tells us it was a night visit. It doesn’t say why.
At the start of their conversation, Jesus confronts Nicodemus with the truth that he “must be born again”. (John 3:3). When Nicodemus seems skeptical, Jesus remarks that since he is a leader of the Jews, he should already know this (John 3:10).
It is in Nicodemus’s grilling that Jesus stated one of the most well-known and beloved verses in the Bible. It was the verse recited to me by my pastor before I asked Jesus to save my soul decades ago. The words in John 3:16 mean more to me than words can say: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son. That whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.” It sums up in a nutshell what the Gospel is all about. I understand what a church leader of long ago, Martin Luther, meant when he referred to this verse as the “heart of the Bible, the Gospel in miniature.”
It doesn’t say in the scripture if Nicodemus went home that night a believer of Jesus or not. My thought is Nicodemus either came around that night to believe in Jesus or he eventually did because of other times Nicodemus is mentioned by John which put Nicodemus in a good light.
The next time he is mentioned was when he was on the job on the Sanhedrin as they were considering what to do about the “Jesus” problem. Nicodemus comes to the defense of Jesus by stating Jesus should not be dismissed or condemned until they have heard from Him personally. (John 7:51). However, the rest of the Council didn’t take kindly to Nicodemus’s statement and rudely dismissed it.
The final mention of Nicodemus in the Bible is after Jesus’ crucifixion. Nicodemus assisted Joseph of Arimathea in Jesus’s burial. This is another sign that Nicodemus did take to heart Jesus’s words that night. Nicodemus brought expensive spices for use in preparing the body for burial and then assisted Joseph in wrapping the body and placing it in the tomb.
John’s Gospel leaves many questions about the one who grilled Jesus late into the night. Was he born again? What did he do after the resurrection? The Bible is silent on these questions. Perhaps Nicodemus’s final recorded act was his declaration of faith.
Since I have trouble asking questions even from those people I know, I give Nicodemus credit for asking questions from someone his peers was opposed to. He’s a good example to follow for all believers can and should ask Jesus questions that are in their hearts.
After all, Jesus is still open to questions, even late into the night.