A quote from the “Autism Not Weird” website regarding obsessions:
“Normal people have interests. Autistic people have obsessions.”
The writer stated he was being cynical in his quote. Well, I’ll write what I know. Obsessions, having them, is a daily thing as I go about the business of living. My interests go well beyond interests.
One computer is fine, but three? One TV is fine, but three? A few boxes of cereal is fine, but nine boxes of favorite brands stored in my bedroom closet? (The kitchen is my Mom’s territory). A few packs of six-pack diet soda is fine, but five to six six-packs stored in the same closet? My bedroom is not a house of horrors, but is one for housing obsessions.
A crisis is when a product of one of my obsessions goes on the blink or goes missing. Just recently one of my gadgets gave me a bad case of “separation anxiety”. It was a product from my obsession of electronic gadgetry.
It wasn’t a member of my cheaper line of gadgets; although, a cheaper one would have given me anxiety too. I’m a mother hen over my gadgets! I don’t mean that lightly.
The gadget that gave me such a scare was my smartphone. I first noticed it was not in its designated sweatpants pocket after I got back inside my car at the grocery store. I figured I had left it at home. WRONG! I was horrified that it wasn’t there either. I do mean horrified! My tummy was tied in knots. The Aspie in me was headed for a shutdown.
My phone is connected to my home computer and a check on my computer showed wherever my phone was it was outside of wi-fi range. My car is connected to my phone, too, and it told me I wouldn’t find it there either. I still combed my car twice though. I called the grocery store to report it and no one had turned one in.
Not in the house. Not in my car. I was at my wit’s end. Thoughts were popping in my mind as to what to do. I went on-line to my phone website and suspended my phone service just in case someone found it who wouldn’t do the right thing. How did I know to do that? I’ve lost my phone enough times, that’s how.
At a low point, feeling sick to my tummy, a thought came to ask my “Google” voice-activated device to “find my phone”. The Google-friendly male voice’s response was “I can’t respond to your request since I don’t recognize your voice. Try going on Google and searching on ‘where’s my device'”. I guess my “separation anxiety” affected the tone of my voice. I did sound pitiful all right.
I didn’t have much hope but I took up the suggestion since I had nothing to lose. Since I was logged in on Google Chrome, it recognized my Google account and my Google pixel phone, and pulled up the map on my computer screen. I clicked on the icon and low and behold the picture of the grocery store’s parking lot pulled up.
I took Google at its word and drove the mile and a half back to the store. With my suffering from separation anxiety, that mile and a half felt like an across-town trip. I kid you not! It was like all drivers in my path got the word to “SLOW DOWN”! It was like the two traffic stop intersections were notified to turn RED upon my arrival. Did I have a meltdown at the wheel? Well, I did take out my anxiety on the steering wheel.
As I pulled up to the parking lot, I saw my phone lying down at the exact spot where I had gotten out of the car. Relieved? You would have thought I was a Mama bear who had found her lost cub.
The drive back home didn’t feel near as long as the drive there. I prayed with gratitude to the Lord for guiding me through my separation anxiety. Such as NOT giving into panic and ordering a new phone. Yelp, I was tempted!
This wasn’t a major storm in my life; although, it felt like it at the moment. But seriously, it was a minor storm and I believe the Lord works in those little storms too. Some might ask me, “Why would the Lord care about you losing your smartphone for the upteenth time?” I take it on faith He knows all about my Autism and why it is that my gadgets are like my own kids.
My Mom told me I should wear that phone around my neck. I laughed because it is true. I conveniently blamed it on my sweat pants’ pocket. The pocket was not designed to be a phone-keeper-in-tact. My Mom helped me out by sewing on elastic strips on the opening of the pants pocket. That way when I wear those pants, (they are a favorite pair) I can put the phone in my pocket and seal it up. Smart thinking on my Mom’s part. I wish more of her smartness would rub off on me. As it is, I do wear my keys around my neck. I haven’t locked my keys in the car with it running since.